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 I am an empath. I have spent, and will likely continue to spend, my life attempting to be the peace for others. I love peace. I also love to help. If I see a need, I will meet it before you even ask me to. It's just who I am to my core.  I have spent a lot of time in my life reflecting on people that don't seem to "like" me. From where I'm sitting, I should be quite likeable. I would literally do anything to help you be happy. I have given money, gifts, time, energy, etc. to attempt to make everyone happy so that I can feed off of that and be happy. Even still, I was not enough for some. So, I'm here today to tell you something. Maybe this will meet you where you are. Maybe it won't. It's just really big on my heart right now.  You are you. Period. I know, it's a hard pill to swallow. Hopefully, as your life goes on, you grow and evolve. However, in this moment, you are exactly perfectly you. I'm reminding you of this first because, if you'
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Introductions & Stuff

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  Hello there :) I am Tessa & I'll be blogging here. The first blog always seems so odd. Most of the people that will begin with me already know me. However, for those of you who don't, please allow me to introduce myself. I'm an 80's baby but my soul came long before my body. I am in a serious relationship with the Lord that has nothing to do with religion. I believe that peace comes from within but is so hard to control. I am an empath to my core. I believe that every person I meet is good. You truly have to do something for me to change my mind about you. I believe that no one is completely toxic. Someone who is toxic to me is needed by others. We are all walking different paths. Some people will bring the best version of you out and others will dim your sparkle. Find your people and love them hard. Not everyone is for everyone. That is ok.  I struggle with trying to be confident. I worked very hard and lost almost 200 pounds but confidence was never due to my si
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